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Walking away while still in love2/28/2023 And just like actions supersede words, PATTERNS supersede action. You need to act on the recognition of patterns.Words mean nothing without action backing them up. The ability to know when to walk away goes hand-in-hand with your ability to look beyond grandiose actions, nice words, and even personality. I wrote about this in the motivational quotes post that I wrote with my Mom. Here are 15 Non-Negotiable Red Flags to look out for and always, fold and walk away from. It’s time to put yourself back in charge. If you don’t know when to walk away, you disqualify yourself from EVER being The One That Got Away. Same with relationships – you can’t view something as hurtful/disrespectful enough that you have to fold but also, not know when to walk away. You can’t view something as useless enough to throw in the trash bin but also, use ful enough to keep in your house. And the only people who will ever enter your home are the ones who have no problem disrespecting it as much as the owner already does.Ĭontradiction is the root of all misery. If you don’t take the trash out, the smell will eventually detract from and take over all the beauty of your home. No quality people will ever show up at your door and you will never fully respect yourself if you stay in that kind of self-sabotaging “well, I identified what was trash and put it in bags, but I’m just not fully ready take it out yet” limbo. Who cares how many trash bags you have lined up in your home? Who cares how much you’ve thrown out and how well you’ve sealed the bags? No one will be impressed – including yourself because deep down, you know that this is not impressive. know when to walk away), you are setting yourself up for even more pain and humiliation than whatever it was that caused you to fold in the first place. It doesn’t matter how many things you’ve thrown away (folded from). But keep in mind…įolding without actually getting UP and walking away is like throwing your trash in the trash bin inside your house and refusing to take it out to dispose of properly (and permanently). Here on the blog, I always write about knowing when to fold. The most life-saving, transformative, confidence-instilling, and powerful thing that you can master in this life is the ability to know when to walk away. You’re just working out the terms of your slavery.” – James Altucher.Īre things that should never be up for negotiation. One of my favorite quotes: “If you can’t walk away from a negotiation, then you aren’t negotiating. When was the last time you had an honest conversation with yourself? What are your actual limits? Do you have any? Do you find yourself explaining what you won’t tolerate to others but then always ending up the doormat with your boundaries negotiated down to nothing? Do you know when to walk away?
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